Reasons for Concluding a Counseling Case

by Bryan Carlson

There are several reasons for concluding a biblical counseling case, including:

1) Resolution of the issue: The individual has found healing and resolution for the issue that brought them to counseling. This might include growth in their relationship with God, a greater understanding of His Word, and a changed behavior or attitude (Romans 12:1-2; James 1:2-4; 2 Peter 3:18; 2 Timothy 3:16-17). To end the counseling in this case, we would celebrate the individual's progress and encourage them to continue growing in their faith and relying on God for strength and guidance.

2) Referral to another resource: The individual may need additional support that you I am not equipped to provide, such as medical treatment for a physical issue or support from a different counselor. To end the counseling in this case, discuss the referral with the individual, help them make arrangements, and pray with them for God's guidance and provision.

3) The individual's request: The individual may feel ready to end the counseling process on their own, either because they feel they have received all they need from the counseling or because they have decided to seek help elsewhere. I would first have a conversation with the person and let them know if I agree it is time for them to move on. If not, I would encourage them to keep meeting with me. To end the counseling in this case, respect the individual's decision and pray with them for continued growth and healing.

4) Lack of progress: In some cases, the individual may not be making progress in the counseling process or not committing to their homework. To end the counseling in this case, have an honest conversation with the individual about the lack of progress, pray with them for God's guidance and provision, and offer any further resources or referrals that might be helpful.           

• 2 Corinthians 3:17-18

5) The counselee is an unbeliever who is not willing to submit to the will of God in his or her life: In this case, acknowledge that all guidance and wisdom comes from the Word of God, without which we are not able to offer enduring help. If appropriate, refer them to another source for ongoing help and support. 

• Matthew 7:6

• Matthew 18:15-18

• Proverbs 29:1

• 2 Thessalonians 3:14

• Mark 10:17-22

In each case, it is important to end the counseling process with grace and compassion, seeking to honor God and show His love to the individual, even as the counseling comes to a close. It is also good to provide the individual with resources for continued growth and support, such as books, Bible studies, or a local church or ministry to become involved with. (Faith notes 37-38; Roy 11)

Faith Biblical Counseling, ACBC Exam Track 5, 37-38.

Don Roy, IBCD, ACBC Theology Exam Study Guide, 11.